Sunday, March 17, 2013

Joining the Church

As children we played in the streets in the winter time when the weather permitted. Our streets were lit by gas lamps and every evening the lamplighter came by with a pilot light on a long pole to light the lamps. It was always a daily or nightly ritual to follow the lamplighter to the end of the street and watch him light all the lamps along the way.


















Around the street lamp we played our games. There was hopscotch, five stones (jacks), skipping (jump the rope), French skipping, I was very good at that. We bowled hoops, played diabolo, this was a game where the player held two sticks, one in each hand, and a three foot cord was attached to the sticks. A large spool made for this purpose was kept spinning on the cord by quickly moving the hands alternately up and down, then at the right moment was tossed into the air and caught on the cord and kept spinning. This took a lot of practice and skill but was a lot of fun.
On winter days it was dark by three or four o'clock in the afternoon and we played long and hard under the street lamps. It took a lot of calling sometimes from our parents to get us to go home. To get instant attention we often heard our parents call out, "If you don't come in now the Mormons will get you". I didn't know what or who "Mormons" were but I always hurried home when I heard it.
One late wintry afternoon while playing in the street I noticed two well-dressed gentlemen stop at our house. They talked with Mother briefly then left. At the supper table that evening I was startled to hear Mother tell Dad that two Mormon missionaries had called and left some tracts. Dad asked to see the tracts but Mother said she had thrown them into the fire, adding, "We don't want that rubbish in the house". Dad said the next time they call, tell them to come when I am home and please save the tracts. The next time the missionaries called, Dad was home for it was later in the evening. We were all called in from play and we sat around the table in the kitchen which was the warmest room in the house. We were invited to kneel around the table in prayer. I can still remember the sweet spirit that filled the room. My father had lots of questions to ask the missionaries, things that had been bothering him for a long time such as "Why weren't there prophets upon the earth today? What happened to babies who died unbaptised?" The last baby mother had had died a few weeks after it was born and Mother had neglected to have it christened so the Minister had refused to bury it in consecrated ground. He said its soul had gone to Hell. The missionaries answered all of Dad's questions to his satisfaction. They told us the story of Joseph Smith's first vision. We listened in wonder and even then I knew it was true. I think my father was instantly converted. He told me years later that he knew the truth of what the missionaries had told us before they left the house. I also learned later that Father's oldest sister, Jessie, his brother Albert and three half sisters had already joined the Church and they were responsible for sending the missionaries to our house.
It took Dad a little while to overcome the tobacco habit but in about two months he was baptized by Elder Lorin A. Little. It was a year and a half later before my mother could decide to be baptized or consent to our baptism.


Long Live The King

Once every two or three years the King and Queen would pay a visit to Bristol. When this occurred, the streets were decorated with red, white and blue bunting and flags flying everywhere, especially along the route the Royal Party was to take. The streets were lined with policemen and soldiers with drawn bayonets to keep the crowds from getting too rowdy. Soldiers and sailors would march in their colored uniforms or ride their prancing horses, the sun making their swords glisten. It was a lot of pageantry but all a part of the England I knew and loved. Mother dressed us in our Sunday best and took us down town hours before the time of the parade. We would take our stand where she thought we could see the most. We got very tired and cross, being pushed and jostled by the crowd. But at last they came--first the horse guards with their prancing beautiful horses, a little afraid of the noise of the drums and bands and the shouting, then the grenadier guards with their tall fur hats called buzbies and scarlet coats, then the Welsh Fusaliers, and so on. There was a contingent of every part of the royal army and navy, each with their own colorful uniforms and their own bands. The Lord Mayor of Bristol in his robes of office leads the way. Then an awed hush comes over the crowd as the royal coach comes into view drawn by six beautiful white horses. Then, as it draws near, a cheer goes up from a thousand throats, "Long live the King, hoorah". It is a proud moment. What privilege to be a proud, free Englishman. My mother was always a true Royalist. My father was never disloyal but never cared for all this display.

Thursday, March 14, 2013

May Festival


Mock Orange Blossom
We were going through a period of depression at this time and there was much poverty and distress all around us. Thousands of men were out of work. The Church of England had a soup kitchen and people would stand in line with their kettles and bowls every day. My father became unemployed but we were pretty hungry before my mother would permit us to stand in line for soup.
Hawthorne Blossoms
Each year about the middle of May our school held a May Festival. A queen was chosen according to scholarship ability and her behavior. The next who were acceptable became her maids of honor and there were twelve attendants. That year I was between the age of twelve and thirteen and was chosen as a maid of honor. I was so astonished, but so happy, when my name was called. I almost flew home to tell Mother the good news. She was happy for me and offered to make me a new dress. It had to be white with a yellow sash. I was to carry a basket of flowers and wear a crown of flowers. It so happened that Father was working in a little country town in Somerset called East Harptree at the time. When he heard my happy news he offered to send me all the flowers I needed. The spring flowers were all abloom in the fields--cowslips, primroses, daffodils, bluebells, mock orange blossoms, bridal wreath, large moon daises, and hawthorne blossoms called May. The day before the festival, a large box of these flowers arrived by special carrier and after Mother and I had selected all the flowers I needed, I took the rest to school to share with the other girls. The teachers were delighted. I think I was the most popular girl in school for a while, and I know I was the happiest.

Bridal Wreath
The festival was held outside if the weather permitted, and this day happened to be warm and sunny. Each class in the school braided the Maypole with colored ribbons, dancing in various rhythms to form different patterns they had practiced for weeks. There were also other dances like the Minuet and Sir Roger DeCoverly. At the crowning of the Queen the whole school sang, "We hail the Queen of May, on this our festal day, We hail thee, we hail thee, fair queen of merry May", etc.

Then I was called upon to recite a poem called:
 

Cowslip
THE MAY QUEEN
You must wake and call me early, 
Call me early mother dear,
For tomorrow is the happiest day
Of all the glad new year,
Of all the glad new year, Mother,
The maddest, merriest day.
For I'm to be Queen of the May, Mother.
I'm to be Queen of the May

 

There were 8 or 10 verses. I've forgotten who the author of this poem was. I felt like the girl in the poem. This was the maddest, merriest day, one that I cherished in my heart for many years.




Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Greenbank School

Someone gave me a beautiful fur muff and in the wintertime I wore it attached to a silk cord around my neck. It was so nice to keep my hands warm on a cold winter's day. I was coming home from school one day and I passed a poor little girl crying with the cold so I gave her my muff. When I got  home mother was very angry with me for giving it away.

School was just a couple of blocks from our home. It was called "Greenbank School". I first attended the infants department for boys and girls from 5-7 years, then we were promoted to an all-girls school in the next building. Over a high wall there was another building which  housed the boys. We were allowed to graduate at the age of 14 years.

According to Apostles Talmage and Widtsoe, our educational system was excellent and when we graduated at the age of 14 years, our educational status was equivalent to two years of college in the States. We stayed in the same class for one year with the same teacher who taught us all subjects. Then if we were able to pass our exams we were promoted to the next grade or standard as they were called. If we were inattentive or misbehaved, we were punished by the teacher or sent to the head mistress. She was a little woman, but oh, how she could wield a cane. We were all scared to death of her. I remember being late for school once and had to stand in line for a cut across the hand with that cane. Her name was Miss Owens and I can still visualize her funny little face.

The things I liked about school, of course, were the things I could do best. I was a good speller so I liked spelling bees. I liked mental arithmetic because I could quickly add sums in my head. (I can still add up my grocery list and have it totaled as quickly as the machine). I liked to be in plays. I had  a good memory then and memorized many parts of the Shakespeare plays and acted in lots of them. We made our own stage settings. I liked to read and memorize poetry.

One day when I was in the sixth standard (grade), the teacher informed us that members of the school board would be visiting us the next day and would probably be in our room about our poetry period. She thought it would be nice if we all learned a poem just in case we should be called upon. That night I learned a poem written by William Wordsworth as we had been studying his life and works. The poem was about a little neighbor girl who had died. The reason the poem appealed to me was because it bore my name. The next day, sure enough, the visitors came during our poetry period. There were three ladies and two men and Miss Owens, the head mistress, was with them. I was seated behind a girl who was much larger than I was so I felt quite sure that if I slumped down in my seat I wouldn't be noticed. I felt quite secure and being near a window I let my mind wander. I became aware of a man walking up the aisle--even then I wasn't alarmed. He passed by, then on his way back he stopped at my desk and looking directly at me said, "Would you like to come up to the front and recite for us?" I think my heart jumped right up into my throat and trembling, I arose and walked to the front of the class and recited my poem.

                                                                           HESTER

                                                      When maidens such as Hester die,
                                                      Their place ye may not well supply,
                                                      Though ye among a thousand try,
                                                      With vain endeavor

There were 8 or 10 verses and when I had finished, the gentleman said it was very good but he wondered why I had chosen that particular poem. Then he asked, "What is your name?" "Hester", I replied. A twinkle appeared in his eye. He put his hand into his pocket and pulled out half a crown. In those days that would buy me a pair of shoes. By the way, I was wearing a pair of my cousin's shoes which were two sizes too large for me, which was another reason I did not want to be noticed. I don't think the teacher ever quite forgave me for being chosen before her more favored or better dressed pupils.

HESTER (the full text)

When maidens such as Hester die,
Their place ye may not well supply,
Though ye among a thousand try,
With vain endeavor

A month or more hath she been dead,
Yet cannot I by force be led
To think upon the wormy bed,
And her together.

A springy motion in her gait,
A rising step, did indicate
Of pride and joy no common rate,
That flushed her spirit.

I know not by what name beside
I shall it call: -- if 'twas not pride,
It was a joy to that allied,
She did inherit.

Her parents held the Quaker rule,
Which doth the human feeling cool,
But she was train'd in Nature's school,
Nature had blest  her.

A waking eye, a prying mind,
A heart that stirs, is hard to bind,
A hawk's keen sight ye cannot blind,
Ye could not Hester.

My sprightly neighbour, gone before
To that unknown and silent shore,
Shall we not meet, as heretofore,
Some summer morning,

When from thy cheerful eyes a ray
Hath struck a bliss upon the day,
A bliss that would not go away,
A sweet fore-warning?